View Poll Results: How do you respond to honking?
Look behind you to see what the situation is (even though it might be the last thing you ever see).
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How to respond to honking?
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How to respond to honking?
Honking is supposed to warn other vehicles of imminent danger. Unfortunately, nine times out of ten it's used simply to let out frustration and piss other people off.
This puts us in a bit of a pickle, as the best way to respond to people trying to piss you off is to not respond at all, which the best way to respond to imminent danger is with drastic and immediate action.
That being said, how do you respond to cars honking at you (from behind)?
This puts us in a bit of a pickle, as the best way to respond to people trying to piss you off is to not respond at all, which the best way to respond to imminent danger is with drastic and immediate action.
That being said, how do you respond to cars honking at you (from behind)?
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Originally Posted by Turtle Jack
I wave, I figure it's meant as a friendly warning.
I didn't vote because "wave, smile, nod" was not one of the options.
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Originally Posted by makeinu
Honking is supposed to warn other vehicles of imminent danger. Unfortunately, nine times out of ten it's used simply to let out frustration and piss other people off.
This puts us in a bit of a pickle, as the best way to respond to people trying to piss you off is to not respond at all, which the best way to respond to imminent danger is with drastic and immediate action.
That being said, how do you respond to cars honking at you (from behind)?
This puts us in a bit of a pickle, as the best way to respond to people trying to piss you off is to not respond at all, which the best way to respond to imminent danger is with drastic and immediate action.
That being said, how do you respond to cars honking at you (from behind)?
Growing up in Texas, the only time i EVER heard honking even when cycling was if an accident was about to happen.
Living in chicago now, people honk to say hello, they honk to say goodbye, they honk all day long, they honk while they sing this song.
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Last time someone honked "at me" was right after I had gone through a cloud of dust blown up be 'gardeners' with leaf blowers. I was pissed off already as it was both nasty and dangerous (the cloud of dust).
I turned and cussed out the car. They passed me slowly and the passenger politely told me that they were honking at the jerks making the cloud, not me and that I was fine as far as they were concerend.
Hopefully in the future I'll take a little longer to be sure just who the horn is aimed at.
I turned and cussed out the car. They passed me slowly and the passenger politely told me that they were honking at the jerks making the cloud, not me and that I was fine as far as they were concerend.
Hopefully in the future I'll take a little longer to be sure just who the horn is aimed at.
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Originally Posted by Keith99
Hopefully in the future I'll take a little longer to be sure just who the horn is aimed at.
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I try to give a big friendly wave and grin... and yeah, I look. However, my response does vary, based on the situation... if someone just cruises by and lets out a honk, they get the wave and grin... must be a long lost friend. If someone is trying to squeeze me and is being dangerous doing it... I will try to give them a piece of my mind... if they are not likely to stop and are just being a JAM... they get the one finger salute.
I give out a lot more waves. I talk to a motorist about twice a year. The rest get what they deserve.
I give out a lot more waves. I talk to a motorist about twice a year. The rest get what they deserve.
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Look, if a response is needed for safety, do it, if not, ignore it, or, if it's a jerk and I've had a bad day, give em the good ole American bird.
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My choice isn't available on the poll: big smile and wave.
Honking usually makes me angry, but I want to hide that reaction. If the JAM sees his aggression is mis-understood, perhaps it will piss him off more than an angry reaction would.
I try hard to be glad that they honk at me: It means that they see me!
Honking usually makes me angry, but I want to hide that reaction. If the JAM sees his aggression is mis-understood, perhaps it will piss him off more than an angry reaction would.
I try hard to be glad that they honk at me: It means that they see me!
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Yeah, smile and wave. If it's an angry honk, it generally means I'm doing something wrong so in that position I'll run through my head and see what I'm doing that could be better
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Originally Posted by natelutkjohn
I have been know to apologize to drivers at red lights after saluting them for thinking the honk meant something that it didn't - but my general feeling is that a honk on a busy road is dangerous to me as a cyclist, so please, NEVER do it for any reason unless my life is in danger due to your brakes failing and/or your steering locking up.
Originally Posted by ChipSeal
My choice isn't available on the poll: big smile and wave.
It doesn't matter if you honk back, wave back, smile back, etc. For the purposes of this conversation they are all the same. They all spell death for the cyclist if the honk is legitimate (for example, if the driver's shoe got stuck under the break pedal or some such).
What I want to know is how do you people deal with that? Horns are a necessary safety precaution, but by not interpreting honking as grave danger we are effectively removing that safety precaution.
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If they are coming up behind me and pop the horn, I assume they are just letting me know they are there and I give them a "thank you" wave. The things that motorists do that amuse me the most are when they have to get on the gas and damn near drop their transmission trying to pass me. Now, what pisses me off is the motorcyclists on crotchrockets that want to wind it out as they pass me. But I get amusment out of making vroom vroom noises when I see them at the next gas station up the road fueling up.
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I wave and smile brightly.
More honking = more waving and smiling.
Even more honking = even more waving and smiling.
I really don't understand people who immediately assume that honking means something negative. I take it as a "way to go!". And even on occasions when I'm pretty sure it was something negative, my waving and smiling has gotten many drivers to wave and smile back. They can't help it.
I'm afraid I don't cycle assuming that all drivers want to kill me.
More honking = more waving and smiling.
Even more honking = even more waving and smiling.
I really don't understand people who immediately assume that honking means something negative. I take it as a "way to go!". And even on occasions when I'm pretty sure it was something negative, my waving and smiling has gotten many drivers to wave and smile back. They can't help it.
I'm afraid I don't cycle assuming that all drivers want to kill me.
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Originally Posted by makeinu
That's the whole problem though. You're asking people to honk only when your life is in danger, but if they actually did so then you'd probably die anyway (since you would assume they are just honking to be an ******* like everyone else).
I do however look over my shoulder all the time and double so when I hear a honk - I'm not completely oblivious out there when I hear honks - just VERY beligerant when I do
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I was riding on a two lane road that opened up to four lanes about 15 yards ahead of us, with my buddy. We were riding side by side, chatting and moving along at a pretty decent rate--either way, the road had only just narrowed and opened up again soon, and there was no bike lane, so if we were in file the people behind us would still have to wait--when the guy behind us honked five or six times. I looked, and seeing that he was just impatient and rude, flipped him off; he pulled up beside us when he could and sputtered before yelling for me to get off my bike so he could assault me (he said it in a few more words). What a jerk. I just laughed and have delighted in making fun of him for the past couple days.
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lol nice one oaks.
Usually when the honker is a JAM they don't do it until they're right on my rear tire or they're passing me. I can usually tell when somebody is going to do an "anger honk" before they do because I'm always keeping an eye on my rear view mirror. These ones get a friendly wave and/or a smile.
If a vehicle were coming at me from behind at high speed, laying on the horn, and not slowing down, I would assume there was a problem and do whatever possible to get out of the way (I've never had this happen).
Sometimes people I know will honk as they pass by. One time I wasn't paying attention and it scared me, but I just held my path since I was in a bike lane with a curb/light posts to my right and the honk came from my left. That taught me to pay more attention. The next time I see a friend that honked while I was riding I try to make it a point to ask them not to again.
Usually when the honker is a JAM they don't do it until they're right on my rear tire or they're passing me. I can usually tell when somebody is going to do an "anger honk" before they do because I'm always keeping an eye on my rear view mirror. These ones get a friendly wave and/or a smile.
If a vehicle were coming at me from behind at high speed, laying on the horn, and not slowing down, I would assume there was a problem and do whatever possible to get out of the way (I've never had this happen).
Sometimes people I know will honk as they pass by. One time I wasn't paying attention and it scared me, but I just held my path since I was in a bike lane with a curb/light posts to my right and the honk came from my left. That taught me to pay more attention. The next time I see a friend that honked while I was riding I try to make it a point to ask them not to again.
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To all the 'smile and wave' folks...I get this mental picture of someone honking and hollering to warn you of something about to hit you, and your response is to smile and wave...right up to the time you go SPLAT!!!
Smiling and waving is a nice response - AFTER you re-check your situation to ensure you are not missing something that may be putting you in danger.
Smiling and waving is a nice response - AFTER you re-check your situation to ensure you are not missing something that may be putting you in danger.
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I have never had someone honk at me as a warning, so I do the same thing as I do with my child when she is whining that there is nothing to eat just after I spent $300 at the supermarket...I ignore it.
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Haven't had anyone honk at me as a warning, but when I hear a honk I always check it out. If it's just somebody being a butthead I ignore it. If it turns out to be a friend passing by who's honking, then I'll wave. However, I'd rather they didn't do that as it is pretty startling.