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Old 05-01-07, 05:03 PM
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Originally Posted by FitRider 921
Thank you, East Hill. As for Mr. Harmer, Smithtown is not what it used to be.
Even still. I can assure you, My best friend lives in Nesconsett and I've picked his youngest sister up from school (Smithtown H.S.) and trust me you have better pickings there in than my area. Not that I check out 15yr. olds I'm just sayin is all. My little brother complains daily about the lack of ladies. HAHA.

As much as people tried to give me the advice I knew was right at the time; I still chose to do what I wanted. Its part of growing up, you make bad decisions and learn from them. If you followed everyone's advice you'd be a pretty boring person and will have learned nothing from life. I'm hoping for the best for you though.
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Originally Posted by mude
beside, if you "love her" anything we say wont make a diference, your mind is already made up.
Originally Posted by fitrider
I don't want to give up yet.
told ya so
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We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Youre beggin me to go, youre makin me stay
Why do you hurt me so bad?
It would help me to know
Do I stand in your way, or am I the best thing youve had?
Believe me, believe me, I cant tell you why
But Im trapped by your love, and Im chained to your side

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Were losing control
Will you turn me away or touch me deep inside?
And before this gets old, will it still feel the same?
Theres no way this will die
But if we get much closer, I could lose control
And if your heart surrenders, youll need me to hold

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield
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Originally Posted by FitRider 921
Yeah, I know I'm going to take a lot of heat for this one, but honestly, I don't give a ****. I'm so messed up right now. Most of you are already guessing the reason, and most of you are probably right. Tonight I just found out that my girl was secretly talking to some big druggy at another school who was sweet-talking her who she now likes a bit. The kid is a total dick and abuses women, and she knows that, but doesn't care. She has been doing all of this behind my back and finally told me tonight. I am so hurt right now and really don't know what to do. I'm lost.
you should start chillin' in foo.
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Old 05-01-07, 07:38 PM
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Kinetik, thanks for the good advice as well.
Mude, you're just always right... I love you.
Rob, what school do you pick him up from? High School West or High School East?
Wonginator, I have too much to deal with here... otherwise I would.
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Originally Posted by FitRider 921
Rob, what school do you pick him up from? High School West or High School East?
Haven't a clue. I picked up his little sister once at the beginning of the year, I diddnt even know there was two schools to choose from.
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Does the school look pretty run down and have a lot of grass area? Or is the school decently nice?
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Originally Posted by wethepeople
So slap that ho to the curb and step on her throat. Or jerk off in her eye.
As much as i wanted to laugh at this, you are not helping our friend gunz.
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Originally Posted by the wonginator
you should start chillin' in foo.
He'd have to put up with Maximan.

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Originally Posted by East Hill
He'd have to put up with Maximan.

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He's a moderator, it might be a good thing.
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Originally Posted by wethepeople
He's a moderator, it might be a good thing.
You could be correct about that. I still can't believe the trash that comes out of that lad--like the thread about the poor dog. Sad, sad. Blame the dog for being a dog, don't bother to realise that the dog's doing what puppies do. No attempt to train the dog, it was just a toy to that family, not a living, breathing creature. Now it's just a nuisance, to be thrown away .

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Old 05-02-07, 10:41 AM
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Originally Posted by CMcMahon
We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield
We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Youre beggin me to go, youre makin me stay
Why do you hurt me so bad?
It would help me to know
Do I stand in your way, or am I the best thing youve had?
Believe me, believe me, I cant tell you why
But Im trapped by your love, and Im chained to your side

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

Were losing control
Will you turn me away or touch me deep inside?
And before this gets old, will it still feel the same?
Theres no way this will die
But if we get much closer, I could lose control
And if your heart surrenders, youll need me to hold

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield

We are young, heartache to heartache we stand
No promises, no demands
Love is a battlefield

We are strong, no one can tell us were wrong
Searchin our hearts for so long, both of us knowing
Love is a battlefield
Pat Benatar...
brings back [bad] High School memories
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Originally Posted by East Hill
You could be correct about that. I still can't believe the trash that comes out of that lad--like the thread about the poor dog. Sad, sad. Blame the dog for being a dog, don't bother to realise that the dog's doing what puppies do. No attempt to train the dog, it was just a toy to that family, not a living, breathing creature. Now it's just a nuisance, to be thrown away .

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I didn't hear the story, but it sounds quite cruel.
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https://www.bikeforums.net/foo/293136-effing-dog.html

Read the other thread in my post there to get the full story.



How are you doing, Gunz? Better today?

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Wow, that really is terrible. If he ever came here, he'd probably get banned for the things he does. But, my main responsibility is here, as I'm sure there are a whole bunch of mods at Foo... or atleast I hope so.

Eh, I can't say I'm quite happy. It's really depressing just seeing her and not being able to hold her or anything and it really hurts- especially since I have lunch with her and have to sit next to her for 40 minutes straight (while she sits there and texts the guy that may replace me and talks about me while I'm right next to her). But, I guess I am a bit better than yesterday due to a lot of my friends' help. Most of her friends even talked to me about it and they told me how much she messed up and how she's not even a good girlfriend. I really have no idea what's going on. She never said that we are officially no longer together, but she's telling most of her friends that we are "on a break". A lot of people are super pissed at her and want to yell at her.
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Wow, she sits there and text's that guy. Thats ****ed up
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Yeah, I've realized that.
EDIT: Oh yeah, and that guy also happens to be one of my best friends (he is not the druggy mentioned in the first post, it's a different guy).
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It takes time. If she's got a good heart she will eventually think about what she's done. If you have a good heart, you'll accept what's happened and go on. That may mean the two of you get back together, but it may not.

Try to remain clear headed. If you still think she's worth it, wait. Whatever you do, don't say bad things about her. Especially things that might ruin her reputation. If she keeps going down the path she appears to have chosen, she'll have only herself to blame.

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East Hill, I've realized all of that. I think she really is a good person and is worth waiting for... again. I don't say anything bad about her because I don't say anything bad about anyone. People that have heard the story are mad at her and that may ruin her reputation, but that's her own fault.
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You are a very wise man, Gunz.

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Originally Posted by wethepeople
He's a moderator, it might be a good thing.
wtf maximan's a mod?
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Originally Posted by East Hill
You are a very wise man, Gunz.

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Thank you. I'm also known to be one of the nicest guys you will ever meet. I have a lot of patience and don't lose my temper too easily (some of the guys here are quite lucky). In ten months, I literally never yelled at her or said one mean thing to her. I'm just a nice guy.

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wtf maximan's a mod?
No, but I am.
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I don't really have any advice for you except move on. She obviously doesn't feel the same way about you and it's not worth it. I had a girlfriend who never seemed to find time for me and liked me less than I liked her. We broke up about year ago and she hasn't had a boyfriend since. I've had 3 girlfriends since her, so who's the winner there eh? Bottom line, accept it and move on, besides she may see sense and realise how much of an ass she is.
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I don't want like a million girlfriends. I hate that. I want as few as possible because I hate the whole breaking up process and everything.
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Meh whatever. I still think you should move on. As i said, she doesn't appreciate you as much as you do. Find someone who feels the same way about you, as you do with them
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