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Old 04-30-07, 07:33 PM
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So the saga continues...

Yeah, I know I'm going to take a lot of heat for this one, but honestly, I don't give a ****. I'm so messed up right now. Most of you are already guessing the reason, and most of you are probably right. Tonight I just found out that my girl was secretly talking to some big druggy at another school who was sweet-talking her who she now likes a bit. The kid is a total dick and abuses women, and she knows that, but doesn't care. She has been doing all of this behind my back and finally told me tonight. I am so hurt right now and really don't know what to do. I'm lost.
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slap a ho
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Old 04-30-07, 07:47 PM
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i told you. she's trouble.
*****es are wack.


anways, heres what you do. kill her. start doing drugs with the duggie. waste your life away.
over some wack as *****.

but SRSLY.
i feel like i warned you about such things.
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People did. But I never would have expected this... never.
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Old 04-30-07, 07:50 PM
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im telling you.
break up with her. now.
i mean, she's a dumb ho. it always seems like hs'es putting you through **** and you only do good for her.

and after you breka up with her exert self control and dotn take her back.
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I just can't though. I love her. "Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds"
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"love is wack"

you dont love her.
your just horny.

beside, if you "love her" anything we say wont make a diference, your mind is already made up.
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No, I'm not horny because I'm not about that at all and it was never really a part of our relationship. You'd be surprised how little we did in 10 months.
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Gunz, you are 15, I know it feels like she is the one but you are going to have to break it off and get on with life. It's obvious you are not going to stay with you forever, so why have her hold you back? This is a learning experience for you.

So slap that ho to the curb and step on her throat. Or jerk off in her eye.
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Originally Posted by FitRider 921
"Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds"
Originally Posted by mude
"love is wack"
nt

Perfect. New sig time.

That sucks. She must be one of those girls that likes to be abused and treated like a ***** by some drug dealer. You can do better, if that's the case.
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Old 04-30-07, 09:09 PM
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Oh man, it doesn't fit in the sig box
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But like, that's not her at all. She's one of the quiet, shy, and innocent type.
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If this is her game, she's doin' you a favor. Be glad you're finding out what she's about.

She's a loser.
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Man don't be gay. You're 15, don't waste your high school years stuck on one stupid chick. You have to live, and make the best of your highschool years cause they don't last long and if you waste it all stuck on one stupid ***** you're gonna regret it. You have to meet girls, and date girls and then eventually in your last year of school, or after school you will decide you want to settle down and get into something long term. But man high school is full of chicks, so make the best of it. Besides that chick you got isn't exactly hot ****. You can do better, go find yourself a ****en babe.
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Eh, I know some of what you guys say is absolutely true... but I don't want to give up yet.
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Originally Posted by FitRider 921
Eh, I know some of what you guys say is absolutely true... but I don't want to give up yet.
Well then enjoy.
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What I just told you is all true, and it's exactly the advice you need to hear, and listen to right now. You only live once man.
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I'm not certain I should step in here, but, I think I would try to back away from the situation. If she has any feelings for you, she'll realise eventually that you're the right choice.

Me, personally, I would have nothing to do with someone who's likely to be incarcerated in a few years, but some people are drawn to that for some odd reason.

All this is much easier said than done.

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Fuzzy could'nt be more right. If I knew at your age what I now know. I think every single person on these forums has said "She's not like that.....What we have is so diffrent.....You just dont understand how we relate" etc. etc. in the end it's all just straight up nieavity (sp?). You live and you learn. Being rejected sucks. Shoot man, you live in SMITHTOWN your lucky!! I grew up in Centereach and Smithtown was well know for the copious amounts of little hotties. Dont sweat one girl please, for me.

P.S. If your not horny, You need to go to the doctor cause that's just not normal at 15. Or any age past 8 for that matter....

EDIT** East, please pardon my male chauvinism. Hehe.
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EDIT** East, please pardon my male chauvinism. Hehe.
It's ok, I know you guys are trying to help Gunz .

I just can't relate to someone who doesn't want to hang with a nice guy, instead of a jerk. I've known jerks, and I would just rather be with someone like my husband, you know? But that's a side effect of getting older--it really does tend to give you a perspective. Human nature being what it is, there's always the temptation to flirt with things that aren't necessarily good for us, and eventually both men and women come to the conclusion that someone who is kind and loving is where it's at. Good looks in women, and hair in men, go soon enough, and then you're left with the basic person...a good heart and kind soul go a long way.

Anyway, I am sorry to hear about your troubles.

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Originally Posted by East Hill
...a good heart and kind soul go a long way.
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and a good cook...both should be good cooks!


i like my food...


maybe I have a tapeworm
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and a good cook...both should be good cooks!
Fortunately for me, my husband is an excellent cook. I handle the sweets, he handles the savoury. Works out quite nicely.



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Dump her. Leave her hella in the cold. Make a hella scene. Seriously. Call her out and everything on it.

It'll make you feel better and other people will know what she did to you.
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Thank you, East Hill. As for Mr. Harmer, Smithtown is not what it used to be.
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Ok now it's time for a serious reply from my side of the computer screen.

If i were you...i would just let her go and eventually she'll realize what she lost. Don't really keep your doors open or like wait for her to come back, just try and move on. Maybe be single for a bit. After all you are what, 15, 16 ? We are young. We don't need all this relationship crap yet. We've got plenty of time, no need to grow up fast.

Now i don't mean go mingle with all the girls at your school but just be happy being single and being able to hangout with all your freinds that are girls and just have fun. As much as a girlfriend would be nice most relationships last like a month at our age. It's all stupid.

Just ride your bike, play baseball and be happy.

I'm not trying to live vicourisly (sp?) through this post or act like i know everything but that's just my view.
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