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Old 11-28-09, 11:06 PM
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Dirty Laundry

I'm in some odd mood to air some of my dirty laundry. Some back story here. I haven't seen this girl in over 6 months. I respond with the way I responded in this series of IM's. I've told this person on several occasions before that I'm not interested in a relationship with her, sexual (I admittedly was interesting in sex only for a while but have disclosed otherwise since then) or anything outside of a friend. I get these little messages on a periodic basis. Because I don't want to respond to her, I thought I would share what my thoughts are to the foosters.
First off, I cooked dinner for some of my close friends. I do this on a pretty regular basis when I'm home. Secondly, I'm not a player. I don't mislead people. I'm forward and honest about what my intentions are every time I have some sort of encounter. If anything, I think I'm just the opposite. Thirdly, I'm not sure how I let her down. Again, I've never misled this person in any kind of way. I'm not sure how she can misread "If you want to be friends and contact me every now and then that's fine, but I seriously don't want to be in a relationship with you outside of that."


[5:45:13 PM] Her: Im waiting for you, with nothing on...........
[6:14:04 PM] Me: i have company
[6:14:45 PM] Her: oh, like work company or play? I thought you were out of town?
[6:15:35 PM] Her: nevermind dont answer that, now im just being nosey
[6:16:13 PM] Her: okay well, I will bank on no, so i wil ttyl.
[8:48:31 PM] Her: (d)
[9:43:03 PM] Her: why must you be a player? Do you even have a heart at all? Any feeling to you at all, like do you ever feel guilty? Or bad about someting you have done?
[9:52:15 PM] Her: okay since your not on here I will vent to an open space...........Your an awesome guy, you have so much "good guy" potential, yet you dont even come off that way, you come off as a typical guy, your **** (Short for Richard) gets in the way of everything. Why even waste your time talking to me? You have planty of other, closer booty calls aroung you, so why me? Thats all I am to you anyway. If thats all you think of me as then count me out. I am not that kinda person, not anymore, yeahy I want attention, but not that damn bad, Im better than that. You are a great friend, but to see that you look at me as a piece of ass, kills me, and to make it worse, you act like my friend kinda, then treat me like any other **** (Duck anyone?), thats not fair, it sucks. When will you stop? Im sad for you, its almost a waste, like most days when I think "man crackerjab is an awesome guy, hes such a good friend" you let me down later, so the one guy I have some faith in for mankind, and you show me, there is absolutly no hope in men, period. They are all the same arent they?



Flame or discuss. Either way.
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Old 11-28-09, 11:12 PM
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Where do you find these women? Isn't this about the third time this has happened to you, where a woman thinks you have an interest but you don't?
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Old 11-28-09, 11:14 PM
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Not much to discuss really, stay away from this one. She's trying to hem you up. Keep your distance and just live your life. Hang with your friends and find the woman you care about and cares about you.
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Old 11-28-09, 11:15 PM
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I suggest you screen your calls for the next little while. If you told her in plain, simple Engligh that you aren't interested in a relationship then the woman is a bit out of her mind.

Good luck! And be careful.
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Old 11-28-09, 11:15 PM
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Originally Posted by CbadRider View Post
Where do you find these women? Isn't this about the third time this has happened to you, where a woman thinks you have an interest but you don't?
I third time that I've discussed it on here. I've had some much worse ones. I attract the crazies apparently.
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Old 11-28-09, 11:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Big_e View Post
Not much to discuss really, stay away from this one. She's trying to hem you up. Keep your distance and just live your life. Hang with your friends and find the woman you care about and cares about you.
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Exactly. The one thing I fail to say when explaining I'm not interested in a relationship is that I'm not interested in relationship with "you".
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Old 11-28-09, 11:18 PM
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Is this the boss's sister?
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Old 11-28-09, 11:21 PM
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Is this the boss's sister?
Heh. No, she's not a crazy.
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Old 11-28-09, 11:31 PM
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So wait. I'm confused. What happened to the boss's sister?

Oh and I saw a helicopter salesman today at the mall and thought of you.

But nevermind that. What happened to the sister?
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Old 11-28-09, 11:33 PM
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She got back together with the guy she had been seeing and moved to PA.
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Old 11-28-09, 11:50 PM
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So was this crazy one AFTER the boss's sister or before?
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Old 11-29-09, 12:24 AM
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Originally Posted by CbadRider
Where do you find these women? Isn't this about the third time this has happened to you, where a woman thinks you have an interest but you don't?

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I third time that I've discussed it on here. I've had some much worse ones. I attract the crazies apparently.
No, where do you find them? I want an address.
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Old 11-29-09, 12:26 AM
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ask her if her knife has a name? if not, ask about her chainsaw cozies
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Oh that reminds me. I still haven't named my new blackened out auto. Hmm......
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Old 11-29-09, 02:58 AM
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ask her if her knife has a name? if not, ask about her chainsaw cozies
I got a chuckle and a chill reading that.
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Originally Posted by crackerjab View Post
Exactly. The one thing I fail to say when explaining I'm not interested in a relationship is that I'm not interested in relationship with "you".
...And what's wrong with a relationship with me?
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Old 11-29-09, 03:15 AM
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This is depressing. I assumed this thread was going to be about just how dirty laundry really gets. Maybe get some helpful hints on washing the stuff, or how to keep it from getting so dirty so fast. I hand wash a lot of my clothes and am always fascinated by the amount of gunk they accumulate. It's disgusting and fascinating all at the same time. This is probably how the guys at Whirlpool and Tide got started.
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Old 11-29-09, 07:55 AM
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Run away. She's psycho. I think you were pretty clear with your statement that you didn't want to be in a relationship.

There are normal women on the planet. Work harder to find a non-crazy one.
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Is this on Yahoo IM? If so, I suggest you discover the "Ignore" button. She sounds like she has more than one puzzle piece missing, at least to me.
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Old 11-29-09, 08:32 AM
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Run away. She's psycho. I think you were pretty clear with your statement that you didn't want to be in a relationship.

There are normal women on the planet. Work harder to find a non-crazy one.
Crazies should be handled like dogs -- if you run away, you will only excite/provoke them. But CJ needs to figure out what he's doing to attract these wackos. Normal people rarely have to deal with this kind of stuff.
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Tell her your door swings the other way.
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Old 11-29-09, 08:50 AM
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Originally Posted by Siu Blue Wind View Post
Tell her your door swings the other way.
Hahaha, that may not work....she's probably the type that thinks, "I can cure that!"
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Tell her you're full of STD's
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It doesn't matter how or where you find these "girls" but just admit you like the attention. You like this talk show-like "drama" they feed you so that there is something to talk about. You are just as needy as the females you attract. If this were not true, you would not air your dirty business and laundry here.
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