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doofo 03-13-07 05:09 PM

im going to report the op for stalking

nexus6 03-13-07 05:36 PM

Some guy yelling out of a car at a girl riding a bike in the middle of the night by herself, is not cool or funny.

fischer, max 03-13-07 05:50 PM


Originally Posted by wetduck
Yeah, I see the general consensus here. Makes sense, although I'm going to disagree with anyone who says my comment wasn't funny. That is probably just my English degree and love for irony though. Also, I actually started to say it before I knew she was a woman, I just saw a single speeder until halfway through my question. She of course would not have known that.

Next time, I'll keep my mouth shut.

i can't imagine why she would have suspected you were a ******.

veggiemafia 03-13-07 05:57 PM


Originally Posted by taken67
A girl slapped my ass one time as I rode by. Granted I was wearing pink swimming trunks ... and it was on North Ave.

You should've crashed. She would've seen it in her rearview and come back to check on you and she'd have been putty in your hands.

headlessspider 03-13-07 06:12 PM

aaahh... the intricacies (and politics) of communication... 8D

jet sanchEz 03-13-07 07:34 PM

You wouldn't have said boo if it had been a guy, 'nuff said.

jodypolk 03-13-07 08:47 PM

bif tannen killed this thread a lifetime ago.

SD Fixed 03-13-07 10:37 PM


Originally Posted by kyle!
i mean, it wasn't super rude, what you said. but y'know, when you're riding in traffic, people yelling almost anything out a car window is mad-lame because it throws you off guard and stuff. my favorite thing is when small children give me a thumbs up when i'm crankin'. word.

I saw you at the v drome two weeks ago saturday.

The blue basso is sweet.

wroomwroomoops 03-13-07 10:51 PM


Originally Posted by wetduck
So I was in my friends car a few nights ago in Portland, when I saw a person riding a single speed down the road. It was probably around 11 at night. As we passed, I rolled down the window and asked her where her dérailleur was. I thought I was being humorous. The woman who was riding didn't seem to think so, and only scowled and kept riding.

If someone said it to me, I would probably at least smile back. Granted, I don't like getting taunted or yelled at while I ride my bike, but I thought i was being funny enough and showing enough knowledge of bicycles for her to realize I wasn't being mean. The other thought that crossed my mind was she thought I was being an ******* male trying to show off, which I wasn't.

Anybody thinking that was even remotely funny, and starts a thread to complain, has some issues. I think she should have flipped you off. Maybe she wanted to, too, but wasn't sure what kind of a deranged idiot you were.

A rather delusional one, I think.

scott77 03-13-07 10:53 PM

why not a simple "NICE TITTIES!!!"

freeskihp 03-13-07 11:27 PM

the one time i had a pleasing experience with a motorist while riding is when a bunch of guys pull up beside me and start pacing me and out of the back window one of them hands me a Gatorade, that and kids in the back of volvos make me happy

Placid Casual 03-14-07 04:03 AM


Originally Posted by headlessspider
aaahh... the intricacies (and politics) of communication... 8D

What is this "eight d" of which you write?

SD Fixed 03-14-07 07:57 AM


Originally Posted by scott77
why not a simple "NICE TITTIES!!!"

I'm sure you'd do that in SF. I can remember getting yelled at for being a breeder. Seriously.

wetduck 03-14-07 08:21 AM


Originally Posted by jet sanchEz
You wouldn't have said boo if it had been a guy, 'nuff said.

I already stated I was talking before I knew she was a she.


Originally Posted by wroomwroomoops
and starts a thread to complain

I wasn't complaining. I found the reaction strange, and wanted to get an opinion (or two) about the whole incident. Even if I was complaining, isn't that what an internet forum is for?


Originally Posted by Placid Casual
Oh...wait a minute...you mean, you didn't actually think that some bizarre fate had befallen the derailleur on her bicycle while somehow leaving it ridable?

*Whew*! Thank goodness somebody with an English degree was here to explain the whole thing to me. What do you call that thing again, where there's some sort of distance or tension between what is said and what is meant?

You seem to have confused sarcasm with irony. But wait, did you really, or is this some intricate plot to belittle me further (much as I seem to deserve it for asking about a derailleur)? Damn, I just don't know. Nor do I care anymore.

IDeliverPitas 03-14-07 08:40 AM

The only yell out the window moment that I really appreciated was when some guy yelled that my money was about to fall out of my pocket, which it was. That guy save me from losing like 40 bucks. And at first I didn't understand what he was saying and was about to flick him off because I thought he was taunting me. I'm just so used to ******bags yelling from cars that I wasn't expecting a good samaritan.

andypants 03-14-07 09:51 AM

How was she supposed to know you weren't being a smartass? I wouldn't say it was ironic wither, unless you were holding a lost deraileur at the time and happened upon the woman who lost it.

stevo 03-14-07 10:06 AM


Originally Posted by IDeliverPitas
...I'm just so used to ******bags yelling from cars that I wasn't expecting a good samaritan.

where exactly are you riding? Didnt expect to see a post like this from phila.

then again...i'm not a she...

john_and_off 03-14-07 10:25 AM

can everyone just turn this into a thread where we exchange stories about nice things passing motorists have done for us?

once the red bull-mobile hooked me and my roommate up with some free drinks while passing us in traffic.

mattface 03-14-07 10:47 AM


Originally Posted by wetduck
You seem to have confused sarcasm with irony.

Had you shouted that out the window of a car at me I would have mistaken your irony for sarcasm too. See not all ironic questions are funny. I don't think "where's your derailer?" is a funny ironic statement, so I would have to assume you were either trying to be funny, and failing miserably, or you were being a ******. Given the fact that most people shouting things from cars at cyclists are in fact being ******s that is the safest bet.

So with that in mind, if you're going to try to say something to a cyclist, and you want it to be well received, remember they will probably be taken by surprise, and won't have much time to recover and figure out your intentions. Keep is simple, so there is no room for misinterpretation. "Hi", "Nice Bike" "Nice Night for a ride" are all pretty safe. Don't even TY to be funny unless you're pretty sure what you are about to say actually IS funny. If you're pretty sure "where's your derailer?" is a funny comment to make to a singlespeeder, I'd avoid humor altogether.

Momentum 03-14-07 11:28 AM

I had a white van pull alongside me (note to non UK readers - this is what builders and delivery drivers usually use to try and kill cyclists in the UK), keep pace with me for a bit and then a guy leaned out the window and shouted "******** nice one mate - you're doing 25 miles an hour!". Then they drove off.

That was cool.

wetduck 03-14-07 12:09 PM

Yelling out of cars aside, I find it hard to believe that "where is your derailleur" could be construed as an insult to a single speeder. She presumably knew she had no derailleur and wanted her bicycle that way, or it would have had one. It would be like someone yelling "where is your third wheel" to me. I don't want three wheels on my bike, if I did, I would. Oh wait, that would be a ****** bag thing to yell (although still not insulting). See, I do think about things sometimes.

mattface 03-14-07 12:50 PM


Originally Posted by wetduck
Yelling out of cars aside, I find it hard to believe that "where is your derailleur" could be construed as an insult to a single speeder. She presumably knew she had no derailleur and wanted her bicycle that way, or it would have had one. It would be like someone yelling "where is your third wheel" to me. I don't want three wheels on my bike, if I did, I would. Oh wait, that would be a ****** bag thing to yell (although still not insulting). See, I do think about things sometimes.

Not insulting to suggest you should be riding a tricycle? See some people would consider that implication an insult along the lines of "get off the road ******". Stick with "hi" it's very difficult to misinterpret.

scott77 03-14-07 01:15 PM


Originally Posted by William Karsten
I'm sure you'd do that in SF. I can remember getting yelled at for being a breeder. Seriously.

:D

Placid Casual 03-14-07 03:27 PM


Originally Posted by wetduck
You seem to have confused sarcasm with irony.

How do you figure?

humble_biker 03-14-07 03:51 PM

Maybe she missunderstood you and thought you said, "Your ass looks huge on that bike."


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