That's alright mate, sorry for all the words. None of this is critical either. It all tends to work itself out and remember, it's not hard to change things, handlebars, necks and saddles especially and they're the things that affect the overall use of the bike most. If you're dealing directly with a shop, you can often get those things changed at the point of sale for a discount. It's worth asking.

Have fun.

Attached is what I ended up with. A 61cm Felt Brougham. Pretty nice ride so far