opinions-should I sell my bike? (depressing thread)
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Originally Posted by sunninho
In an a year or so when you're kid isn't so needy, and you gain slightly more free time, you'll wish you had your bike.
Even if you don't ride it for 3 years, the carrying cost, and time value of money, don't begin to make up for the hit you'll ultimately take to replace it.
So as long as you're making the mortgage payment, keep the bike.
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Originally Posted by corn oil
I have a six month old and after reading some threads about kids and cycling, I've come to the conclusion I won't be riding much at all. If I do, it will be on my mountain bike and a trailer.
I bought a road bike in '05 and am wondering if I should sell it, and after the kid(s) are older maybe buy a new one? My wife insists I keep it but I don't think its worth it...
Ps- I've contemplated commuting and and sqeezing rides here or there but it just won't work. I don't think once a week for an hour or two justifies having an expensive bike.
I bought a road bike in '05 and am wondering if I should sell it, and after the kid(s) are older maybe buy a new one? My wife insists I keep it but I don't think its worth it...
Ps- I've contemplated commuting and and sqeezing rides here or there but it just won't work. I don't think once a week for an hour or two justifies having an expensive bike.
Do you really want junior to watch you grow fatter?
Set an example of physical activity in your kids as soon as possible. Healthy parents have healthy kids.
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Originally Posted by corn oil
-No showers at work and my job requires me to travel (by car) and deal with customers.
Have you checked out the commuting forum? Lots of solutions to those problems there. As an example: Find a health club fairly close to work and talk to them about a small payment for shower use. Lots of people also use baby wipes and deodorant/powder in the bathroom/office. Do you have to drive to clients every day or can you arrange the schedule so you have a couple of days in the office. If not drive your car to work at the beginning of the week with clean pressed clothes in it then commute by bike. If you live too close to work find a longer route that gives more mileage etc. (I think around a 12 mile one way commute is just about perfect ... 45 min one way and 100 miles a week riding) Check out the commuting forum, there are lots of creative solutions.
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Originally Posted by corn oil
...and on top of that he doesn't fall asleep on his own (our fault-first time naive parents). So my wife and I are tired and were going to try get him used to falling asleep on his own, in his crib hopefully starting this Friday night...
It may not fit with your child-rearing goals or plans, but it's not 'wrong'.
Apologies in advance for the different perspective. Additional non-mainstream views provided upon request
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I started really riding when I had two kids under the age of 2.
I ride during my lunch hour, (long lunch). I also get up and leave as soon as there is some sun light on the week-ends. I ride 3- 4 hours and am still home by 10-11 AM. I get home and the wife leaves me with the kids. I also was able to get in 10- 12 charity rides and some group rides. About 2500- 3000 miles a year. As the kids are getting older I am counting on more time.
I also incorporated the kids into riding. Bought the wife a bike and bought the kids a trailor. We all go for rides. Pulling two children still gives me a decent work out even if it is to the park and back.
I hit the trainer after the kids go to bed.
I ride during my lunch hour, (long lunch). I also get up and leave as soon as there is some sun light on the week-ends. I ride 3- 4 hours and am still home by 10-11 AM. I get home and the wife leaves me with the kids. I also was able to get in 10- 12 charity rides and some group rides. About 2500- 3000 miles a year. As the kids are getting older I am counting on more time.
I also incorporated the kids into riding. Bought the wife a bike and bought the kids a trailor. We all go for rides. Pulling two children still gives me a decent work out even if it is to the park and back.
I hit the trainer after the kids go to bed.
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The Bike: Is it carbon w/ full DA and zipps? If it's a 54cm TT, sell it. I think I have another bike hook in my garage. Just kidding.
1st off, congrats on the baby. The 1st 6 months is definitely the most tiresome. During that time, I managed to bike but was not in race shape. Now, over a year and half later, with the support of a great spouse and with the baby more self-sufficient, I'm back racing again. I work the baby trailer into some workouts too (after she was over 1 year). I'll come back from a Saturday/Sunday group ride and throw her in the trailer for a leisurely (think cool down) 20-30 min ride around the neighborhood and to the park. The funny looks I get in my full race kit while pulling a trailer. Now that we have more light, I'm getting in some fun rides with her right after work and before my night workouts.
So keep the bike and start shopping for a bike trailer to pull the bambino around when he/she is old enough.
1st off, congrats on the baby. The 1st 6 months is definitely the most tiresome. During that time, I managed to bike but was not in race shape. Now, over a year and half later, with the support of a great spouse and with the baby more self-sufficient, I'm back racing again. I work the baby trailer into some workouts too (after she was over 1 year). I'll come back from a Saturday/Sunday group ride and throw her in the trailer for a leisurely (think cool down) 20-30 min ride around the neighborhood and to the park. The funny looks I get in my full race kit while pulling a trailer. Now that we have more light, I'm getting in some fun rides with her right after work and before my night workouts.
So keep the bike and start shopping for a bike trailer to pull the bambino around when he/she is old enough.
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Originally Posted by corn oil
I have a six month old and after reading some threads about kids and cycling, I've come to the conclusion I won't be riding much at all. If I do, it will be on my mountain bike and a trailer.
I bought a road bike in '05 and am wondering if I should sell it, and after the kid(s) are older maybe buy a new one? My wife insists I keep it but I don't think its worth it...
Ps- I've contemplated commuting and and sqeezing rides here or there but it just won't work. I don't think once a week for an hour or two justifies having an expensive bike.
I bought a road bike in '05 and am wondering if I should sell it, and after the kid(s) are older maybe buy a new one? My wife insists I keep it but I don't think its worth it...
Ps- I've contemplated commuting and and sqeezing rides here or there but it just won't work. I don't think once a week for an hour or two justifies having an expensive bike.
You should be able to fit it in your schedule. Hell, even if you can't I'd still keep the bike. You won't get half of what you paid for it if you sell it and you'll regret it years from now. The great thing about bikes is they don't really age much if you don't ride them.
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Don't give up! Instead, buy one of those sit-in trailers so you can go on a ride and have your child (for when they get a little older) come with you. I have a friend who loved to jog but knew the kids would change it, so he bought one of those jogging strollers and now his kids love to come with him.
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Originally Posted by blazer95
I have 1 month old twins, and still find time to ride. Not as much as before, but I do manage to get two or three rides a week. If you want to ride bad enough you will find the time.
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Originally Posted by bmfsiii
Try putting him down just before he falls asleep in your arms at first, and dont go running to him if he starts to cry. Let him try and cry it out for a few minutes.
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Originally Posted by oilman_15106
Just for the sake of argument here is an opposing view. If your storage space is very limited and you have a Mt. bike to get some exercise, sell the bike! Now here is the reason. When your ready to buy another road bike the technology will have advanced and you can buy a new bike for less money. A $1500 bike today is one that pro racers would have killed to own 10 years ago. What makes anyone think that this race to get better, lighter, cheaper is going to slow down? FSA is going to offer a road group soon(rumored) and who knows how much competition there will be when your ready. Quality wheels are dropping in price. bla, bla, bla.
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Originally Posted by GamecockTaco
I'm a father of 4. To get him to fall asleep on his own, you and your wife are just going to have to suck it up. Let him cry!!! He'll likely only do it for 20-30 minutes before he settles in. Whatever you do, unless it's his "help, something is eating me!!" cry, DON'T go in his room.
He'll likely do this for 2-3 nights before he's done and after that you'll have a MUCH easier time. Trust me, been there, done that.
It's torture to hear the little one wailing, but it has to be done if you want some peace.
He'll likely do this for 2-3 nights before he's done and after that you'll have a MUCH easier time. Trust me, been there, done that.
It's torture to hear the little one wailing, but it has to be done if you want some peace.
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Originally Posted by corn oil
...this is what I was thinking. Sell and get whatever I can from it while its still worth something and start fresh with hopefully some new technology or better bike for the money. Anyone else think this might be a good idea?
Methinks you're just looking for an excuse to upgrade!
When the kid gets old enough, you can get yourself a Burley or something. Mine couldn't stand being in it until he was about two, and then we could go hours. When he turned three, something happened and he couldn't bear being cooped up.
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I have a 3 year old and ride 150+ miles a week. Of course, I only have one child and most of my mileage is while commuting. The weekends are for shorter rides and occasional alone time rides when my wife is off.
I am doing the opposite and acquiring more bikes. My latest temptation involves and interest in racing. However that may be a pain to find time for. Plus, my son has his own little bike and is more interested in riding it. No big deal. I can always find time to ride. Who needs sleep?
I vote to keep the bike but everyone's situation is different. The OP should do what is best for him.
I am doing the opposite and acquiring more bikes. My latest temptation involves and interest in racing. However that may be a pain to find time for. Plus, my son has his own little bike and is more interested in riding it. No big deal. I can always find time to ride. Who needs sleep?
I vote to keep the bike but everyone's situation is different. The OP should do what is best for him.
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If the Olmo is a good bike, you might as well sell the new one.
Once the tot gets to be about 1-year-old, you can put him in a trailer, and you can pull that on the local bike paths with your road bike.
This is great because:
1. You get to ride your bike.
2. Because of the added drag of the trailer, you can get a pretty good workout at sane or semi-sane path speeds.
3. The kid likes it, and as he gets older you can stop periodically and spend father-kid time at points of interest.
4. Gives your wife a break.
In order to really get a lot of use out of a bike trailer, it helps to NOT have to load up the car anytime you want to take a ride. (Live close enough to a bike path)
Soon, I want to get my oldest (almost four) on the back of a tandem; I've seen him on a Big Wheel... he's got some power...
Once the tot gets to be about 1-year-old, you can put him in a trailer, and you can pull that on the local bike paths with your road bike.
This is great because:
1. You get to ride your bike.
2. Because of the added drag of the trailer, you can get a pretty good workout at sane or semi-sane path speeds.
3. The kid likes it, and as he gets older you can stop periodically and spend father-kid time at points of interest.
4. Gives your wife a break.
In order to really get a lot of use out of a bike trailer, it helps to NOT have to load up the car anytime you want to take a ride. (Live close enough to a bike path)
Soon, I want to get my oldest (almost four) on the back of a tandem; I've seen him on a Big Wheel... he's got some power...
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Originally Posted by kuan
What do you have and what can you get for it?
Methinks you're just looking for an excuse to upgrade!
Methinks you're just looking for an excuse to upgrade!
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Originally Posted by corn oil
I have a six month old and after reading some threads about kids and cycling, I've come to the conclusion I won't be riding much at all. If I do, it will be on my mountain bike and a trailer.
I bought a road bike in '05 and am wondering if I should sell it, and after the kid(s) are older maybe buy a new one? My wife insists I keep it but I don't think its worth it...
Ps- I've contemplated commuting and and sqeezing rides here or there but it just won't work. I don't think once a week for an hour or two justifies having an expensive bike.
I bought a road bike in '05 and am wondering if I should sell it, and after the kid(s) are older maybe buy a new one? My wife insists I keep it but I don't think its worth it...
Ps- I've contemplated commuting and and sqeezing rides here or there but it just won't work. I don't think once a week for an hour or two justifies having an expensive bike.
You can ride still if YOU make time and that might mean sacreficing something somewhere but there is always a way if that is what you want.
forming a habbit of still making yourself as important as your family is a great thing to do right from the start.
dont wait for the kids to be older to make yourself priority as well as them because you are talking about years of not fuffilling your dreams.
A happy dad or mom is much more productive and fun to have around.
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Originally Posted by Stallion
this thread makes me want to stay single forever...