update: I had the upper bearing upside down, the races/cups were in the right spot the bearing inside was upside down. Now I have play I can't get out, woo hoo. I stopped messing with it and swapped over the lights and pedals to my old bike. I'll let the LBS get it straight, someone on here said something like "an amature bike mechanic is a bike shops best friend", that will hold true again.