Maybe the issue is something along the lines of 'being on the same page' when touring -- if someone values not spending a lot of time watching TV, for example, and wants to get back in touch with a simpler way of living while on tour (being with nature, with the sky, the sun, fresh air, and a different approach to the hours in a day), then it makes sense to have a partner in touring who shares that approach.

But it seems that the decision to share that approach could be based on volunteerism, free choice and understanding, and actually wanting to share the approach (once the approach is clear), rather than rules or imposed limits that may chafe.