stoves:
http://www.rei.com/outlet/search?cat=8001&cat=8001&cat=22000001&page_size=29&cat=22000125&hist=cat%2C22000001%3ACamping+%26+Hi king^cat%2C22000125%3ACamping+Stoves
Tents - less than 4 pounds. rei-outlet usually has something good, but everything they have now is a little spendy. try backcountry.com
edit - ok, less than 4 pounds is a little strict, call it less than 5 pounds.