Originally Posted by
urbanknight
One of my gay friends uses the term "hetero" to express dislike of something, to "counterbalance the use of the term gay".

While I understand why and totally get the point, I think it does more harm than good. Hate is hate no matter what the reason. Its use as such probably would have died out were it not for the backlash making it cool for the kids to use it this way. Kind of the same argument comedian turned activist Lenny Bruce had with sensorship and vulgar language/swearing.