Originally Posted by
rumrunn6
good grief man, why do you think? cuz I'm a married man hat doesn't have sex and I try to distract myself by training so much. I don't think it's working and so some decisions have to be made and some action has to be taken. that's why. OK?
I guess all you married guys still get it and I'm the exception. I was just checking.
Not to wander COMPLETELY away from cycling, but have you tried addressing the, uh, root problem? Sounds like this may have gone beyond the "Hey, honey..." stage, but: counseling? Therapy? Divorce? Reason I ask is that I do a radio talk show, and one of my regular guests is a therapist. This topic came up recently. Her take was that if both partners are happy without sex, fine. But it doesn't sound like you are, and life is too damn short to spend it in a relationship with what seem to be serious fundamental differences.
To answer your question, maybe at my age (65) I could "distract" myself for awhile by cycling. Ten or 20 years ago, no way.