I'm not so sure many people care about Bay-Area Chinese food in here. Regardless, no offense to OP who seems genuinely decent, but if my hijacking this thread makes anyone consider their sources before posting random life questions I'm satisfied.

I can't chill; I'm not worked up. I deal with overly-entitled college kids day in and day out, cycling forums don't register on my conflict scale. I check in here when I'm bored or looking for a ride/planning something. It's my pleasure.