I'm astonished that you regularly ride the Wright Memorial bridge. I rode it just once on my east-coast tour last year, and found it to be the most harrowing experience of the entire 2500+ miles by FAR; a fellow rider I met a day or two later had crossed it the day after I did, and she said she'd found it terrifying as well. Strong crosswinds, too!
Anyway, no advice really: just know that I'm in awe of your courage!