I think you have probably gotten yourself pretty nervous now when coming to a stop - am I going to dab or splat?
So maybe what I would try is, as you are coming just about to a stop - lean the bike just a little bit over to the side you want to dab.
The only time I have had the problem you describe is when I have tried to stop where I am going across an incline. and I try to dab on the low side and the bike wants to go over on the high side.