Originally Posted by
Mr IGH
Here it comes...blaming a dead victim isn't too low for BF...On a thread started by the neighbor of the victim...Wow.
It is not a question of blame, but rather to figure out what factors that contributed to the tragedy which might apply to the OP. Perhaps there are factors that would not apply to the OP, which could mitigate his decision to alter his activities. Learning, not blaming, is what I suggest.