I hate to hear about cyclists being hurt or killed, but I do want to know how I can learn from what happened, and tell my loved ones how to learn from what happened, too. But I hate the tone of some of the posts about cyclists doing dumb crap and getting killed. Everyone here does dumb crap all the time; we just don't usually die of it. I've done a lot of dumb crap, but I was lucky and I lived. I wish people could be more generous when they're talking about mistakes and the loss of life.