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Old 06-12-10 | 06:07 AM
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Purpose/Tone of 50+ Forum

The 50+ forum was established with the following statement of purpose:

"Share the victories, challenges, successes and special concerns of bicyclists 50 and older. Especially useful for those entering or reentering bicycling."

As it evolved, it became a very supportive group - especially in the areas of life where some of us find our bodies doing things we don't like or appreciate as we get older. Like it or not, our bodies do wear out. and discussing these issues and finding our way through them is in no way shameful or bad. Deny them as we like, they happen.

We have had folks successfully (and some not) battle cancer, and the 50+ group has been most supportive and caring. Some folks, such as me, have gone through various battles and skirmishes. In my case, Trigeminal Neuralgia, atrial fibrillation, and most recently, some severe excruciating pain caused by spondolythesis and a bulging disc.

Being able to discuss these concerns, and find other's solutions and support, in a kind, gentle and caring way, has been immensely valuable to me - and I hope others. I appeciate all the great feedback and positive attitude I have received, and it has been great being able to share these concerns as a sort of release.

The 50+ forum has not been characterized as an argumentative, "put down" type of forum. Sometimes we get folks reaching 50+ coming here from other forums or just joining who want to bring some of that antagonism and "got you" attitude here. They generally don't last long, or else they change a bit.

Have I been guilty of some of that attitude over the years? You betcha. But, each time I have, I regret it, and generally I apologize or try and change a bit.

We also have had some of the absolutely best and most clever writing I have ever read. I remember particularly the "Diegos" - a classic where someone - and I know who - built a whole character base of over 50 imaginary "Diegos" who were interacting with each other with remarkable characterization and appropriate differences in style. I am sorry the mods shut that down, but it was great while it lasted.

So, this is a plea for a kind and gentle forum. Life is too short, and we have too few years left, to spend our time in wasted effort arguing and showing off our (now diminishing) testosterone levels.

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