Originally Posted by mcjimbosandwich

yeah, i agree with this sentiment



I say forget dinner, too, unless if it's the type where you can sit on a bench in the town green (hey, that's one thing new england towns are good for) or have a picnic. Dinner early on always feel like frigging interviews, and just doesn't fit into the conception of fun. Do something where you can be spontaneous, such as bring a Frisbee to a park or go on a hike on a local trial.

At the end of the night, go for the kiss, and I would even go as far as motioning for the following: if you don't attempt to kiss her after your next date, we'll ban you until whenever you make the attempt. Back when i was too pu**y to make a move, my roommate took away my house key, saying that unless if I attempted to make a move that night, I'm not gonna be able to go back to the apartment. I think that really cemented the "i have nothing to lose" mentality.

also, we forgot the most important advice. unless if she's into cycling, don't talk about your mileage, your wattage, or your new-ish powertap. it has to be said.