And furthermore, Femininity, Masculinity, Androgyny... It shouldn't matter to anyone but yourself, and whoever you choose to spend intimate time with.

To return to the OP's rant, often anything which covers up, in a tantalizing manner, increases the attention more than plain exposure would do. Having spent a little time on a clothing optional beach, I can tell you that after a few minutes you usually find yourself paying more attention to the girls in bikinis rather than the fully nude.