I'm not defending her but if she could squeeze through, you weren't far enough forward. I usually stop right at the front. If you want to be ahead of me, you'd be in the cross walk.
Also, I've been known to ram or ride right up into the rear quarter panels of drivers who cut me off then suddenly stop. I've left quite a few marks but after enough yelling from both sides, the driver realizes that they basically cut me off without giving me enough time to stop (I could've). But then again this is NYC where bouncing off cars to get through traffic happens every day.
I think the worst thing that happened is that someone thinks a volvo cross country is a fancy car...