That is entirely understandable. You have been on an emotional roller coaster lately. But rest assured, stapfam was not being critical. It took me a while to get his style of humor. Heck, I still can't follow what he means sometimes. But if you'll reread his post, you'll see that he was poking fun, not at you, but at the way we all behave on this forum. In the end, he complimented your choice. Stapfam is one of the good guys (but I'll bet he talks funny).