It's all about balance, happiness and the ability to read and respect those around you. This is especially significant for those you love. Riding in the mornings might be a blessing or a curse as has been detailed in this thread. I'm sure you can read your partner and determine if a ride causes any ill feelings. The cups of coffee, house tasks and legitimate conversation are important components of our relationships. So is legitimate time to ourselves, our wellbeing and pursuit of joy.