Lube won't provide any protection against scratches. The key is knowing how to snake the bar through the stem. The stems are carefully designed to accommodate the curves in the bar, usually by being cut narrower at the bottom. As you thread the bar keep that narrow section at the inside of the curve, and the bar will just slide past.
It's more of a finesse process rather than one involving brute force, and lost of twisting.
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