I understand about the stem now... I am fine with it as looks are completely unimportant to me and it fits very well since I am about 6'2" and the frame is a tad small to my liking.

Am not married so now worries concerning the clothes haha. Yes I work in a sushi restaurant so my desks and night tables are consequently made of the overwhelming amounts of large jugs we go through there.

Wow I must come off as a grimey ass person... 30 hours of college plus 40+ hours of work in a week can turn you into a lot of things I guess.

Thanks again for the input everybody!