Find a hair stylist to do a killer cut, as in taking into consideration your hair texture, height, bone structure, lifestyle, etc. It is trial and error process, but hair grows back. The winner will end up self-maintaining - wash, towel, shake-off and wear. Upon finding that cut, tip well. Very well.
Only on BF a bunch of grown males can discuss (in no particular order of importance) leg shaving vs. waxing/lazering, tights and booties, color-coordinating one's Lycra to whatever needs to be color-coordinated, looking up nail polish for scratch touch-up, and laundry. Now hairstyles.