Alright. Sounds good guys. What really burns me, is that during my limited parking lot trials before I bought the bike, she felt super comfy.
I think a 19 would feel quite a bit better. Before going this route, I'll try a different stem, and probably cut down the bars. Perhaps this will do the trick.
What I REALLY want to do, is attend a bike fest such as the one put on by new belgium brewing co...sit on a bunch of bikes...get the feel for something better.
I love riding, but would rather have something that fits better...this 21" feels toooo big.