Is getting a racing bike her decision Or yours?

Is such a small frame needed to get the reach to the bars right? is that still just the sellers picture?

Ask at the bike dealer about buying a new fork, and leave the [steel only] steerer tube un cut down.
common that its 300mm long.
is one way to get the bars up. and fill in the gap under the stem with spacers
There's clamp on stem raisers and 40 degree up, [measured angle in the stem]
angled stem [40+17 makes it 57 degrees up on the bike.. ]