Forgive me if this reads crude (Mods feel free to edit or purge):
If the pain is between your sack and your gas port then look for a saddle with a cutout or relief in that area. Look at the Brooks site for their Imperial saddle for an example.
If the pain is lateral or behind the stinky chocolate factory then, yes, support those bones, right on those bones, or find a saddle that graces your bones like a hammock. I used to have a well broken in Brooks B17 that was the definition of support and comfort melded into one.
But I'm no expert, and this could have been better worded, but sometimes a grape is a grape.