C'mon, you are making me guilty of hitting a man when he's down as you try to pick him up. When mention of biking followed by a "threesome" that ends in lounging in a personal heaven on earth only serves to depress someone even more it tends to make one feel like an ass for bringing it up.

I will stop there in realization of a lot of the reasons you have been getting rather existential. In particular the remarried before the latest divorce is finalized cycle drains off alot of new entries.