I fail to see how this is a women's issue. I ride to work in bike clothes and I change my clothes when I get to work (including socks). And I bring a hair brush so I can redo my ponytail. No shower, no wipes, no nothin'. Life is not any harder for me than it would be for a male commuter. In fact it's probably easier, because I'm way less stinky. My only advice to you is: if you are stinky drink more water, you'll be less stinky.