You want an honest answer from a fellow Texan? Stop it. Just stop. You're second guessing is only going to make you wreck.

The pedals are fine. You're learning to adapt to them. There is absolutely zero reason to get worked up over being locked onto the bike. Remember, at worst you twist a little and you're out.
The bike is fine. They aren't designed to be light with the expectation that you're going to not be in control. Companies for centuries now have done the research to create the best possible vehicle for you. It's designed to be aerodynamic, responsive AND stick to the ground in turns. This is what it was born to do.

As far as controlling others, forget it. It's absolutely out of your control. Instead, be observant, don't daydream while riding. Look ahead, be prepared to respond but don't let what has happened in the past cause you undue stress.

Now get outa' my locker room and win the second half. Oh, send in the prom queen too, I need a moment with her.

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