Maybe the OP should have used a better word?:
queer Audio pronunciation of "queer" ( P ) Pronunciation Key (kwîr)
adj. queer·er, queer·est
1. Deviating from the expected or normal; strange: a queer situation.
2. Odd or unconventional, as in behavior; eccentric. See Synonyms at strange.
3. Of a questionable nature or character; suspicious.
4. Slang. Fake; counterfeit.
5. Feeling slightly ill; queasy.
6. Offensive Slang. *****exual.
7. Usage Problem. Of or relating to lesbians, gay men, bisexuals, or transgendered people.
n.
1. Offensive Slang. Used as a disparaging term for a *****exual person.
2. Usage Problem. A lesbian, gay male, bisexual, or transgendered person.
tr.v. Slang queered, queer·ing, queers
1. To ruin or thwart: “might try to queer the Games with anything from troop movements... to a bomb attack” (Newsweek).
2. To put (someone) in a bad position.
That would have been construed the wrong way also.
Semantics aside, what kills me is why are so many people so afraid of ****'s - men or women? Jesus Christ, it's just their sex life and nobody's business anyway - it's not like they're going to eat your children and burn your house down.
Oh, I forgot! The only "good" people are "Conservatives" aka Religious Right, most of whom no doubt have had sex with their parents or other assorted farm animals - in the missionary position, of course.