She might look at the Terry Bella short that has a mid-rise with wide waistband and elastic-free front yoke,
http://www.teamestrogen.com/prodTY_610010.html
Also REI has the Novara Mezzo knickers with a non-binding waist band,
http://www.rei.com/product/809715/no...-tights-womens
I have both and prefer the chamois in the Terry, but the others are fine as well.
I have some women's apparel from Aerotech Designs. They are a great value and well made. I would prefer a slightly higher rise in the back. Their waistbands are not too bad either.
Hope this helps,
P2