Originally Posted by mominboots

If you are having problems getting the wife to leave the house or spend more time on the bike, talk to her. Find out what makes her uncomfortable or concerns her about the ride you are proposing. Women don't always like to voice their fears (just like men) and will hope that their husband/significant other is tuned in enough to ask questions.

I love to go fast regardless of how (walking, riding, driving...) I love to feel the wind on my face, spending time on the road, checking out the scenary. My initial hold backs were my lack of understanding how to shift gears to my advantage and when to shift the gears. Next was my comfort - seat, wrists and shoulders.

My husband understands me enough to ask the questions and to work with me without making me feel stupid or small. He is supportive and also finds time to ride at his speeds or his challenge levels.

We go with destinations in mind sometimes. Treats show up as rewards (a quick stop at DQ for something cool or a banana at 7-11). Sometimes, I am tired and want to just chill. The hubby doesn't let me get away with that too often so he will motivate me to get out there and ride.

I guess what I am trying to say is you need to communicate and beaware of the other person's limitations. Keep these things in mind and she might get out there with you. If she doesn't love it as much as you do, don't sweat it. She probably has an activity that she wishes you would share with her but accepts that it won't ever happen.

Enjoy!