Update from the original post.
Since then I have dropped about thirty lubs and four inches in the belly. Went from snug 36" pants to a comfy 33". I did the KISS thing (Keep It Simple Stupid) and did some research. It all boils down to what I eat, not how much. No miracle additives, or suppliments, etc. I won't bore you with the details, but it has worked.
Feel way better, 100% lack of heartburn/reflux stuff, way more energy, sleep better... all around better quality of life.
Thanks for the responses, and stay healthy.