you don't say if you have kids in the mix. If not tell her to take an aerial intercourse in a motivating pastry. If you have kids in the mix then you may need to be a bit more delicate. Either way who cares what she thinks she is your EX for a reason. I haven't talked to mine in almost 16 years AAHHHHH sweet bliss.
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