Any photographs of the situation would be much appreciated, there seems to be some confusion as to what type of kickstand you have, that is, the type that mounts between the chainstays, or the type that bolts to the axle and the chainstay around the left dropout. Also, I am not entirely clear on what the actual issue beyond the simple statement that the kickstand doesn't fit. Finally, do you have access to tools like an adjustable wrench, vise grips, channellock pliers, slip-joint pliers, a vise, or a ball peen hammer? A variety of tools of this sort would be helpful for you to achieve your goal, at least as far as I can assess. Good Luck!

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lverhagen