Ive just started on unloading my stuff. I noticed something...if I put say things in garbage bag sometimes the say thing "talks" to me. I then realized I love the item and it should stay(for now) I put this evening a bird house ,a candle with a beautiful candle holder,and a wooden small cat figure Ive had for years. Well kitty is staying. I think when you unload and you see it leaving ,some things just trigger that...almost like a death. I have to say almost all things are not that way. I sadly got rid of my doggies leash(she died 2 years ago) I knew it was time and just taking up space but it was darn hard. On a good note my shelf in my living area(studio rental) and my kitchen drawer is neat and very bare. Im also frugal...I make my own laundry detergent and use vinegar for cleaning.