Personally, I don't have that problem. I have things happen to me now that either never happened or haven't happened since I was a young wannabe rock star playing guitar in a heavy metal band. I don't know if it's the men to women ratio of Humboldt County, California (which seems to be about 2 to 1 at times), my noticeable experience (the predominantly white ZZ Top beard and hair), or that "taken" look you get after 20 years of being married, but the ladies (including the young ones) seem to chase me a lot more than they ever did before. Not that they ever really did that before, or that it does them any good because I am taken. I think it's funny. My wife is not as amused as I am by it at times...