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Old 10-10-11 | 12:15 AM
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frantik
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Originally Posted by jimmytango
I find it amazing though that I can let someone live with me for free for weeks at a time on multiple occasions, "loan" him money on multiple occasions (quotes because I never get it back), go out of my way to get him jobs that he always gets fired from, call in favors to get him apartments/roommates, and he can't take two hours out of his life to come help me after he ****ing said he would. I don't know whether to be angry or disappointed. I'm debating kicking him out and turning my back, but I can't bring myself to do it.
You are enabling your friend. This is harmful to you, your wife and family, and most of all, your friend who you are trying to help. He will continue to abuse your friendship as long as there are no consequences for his actions.
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