There is no substitute for saddle time to acclimate your butt on the saddle. You haven't ridden enough, period! Any adjustment to the saddle is not going to suddenly give you great comfort if you are not putting in saddle time. Now, what are you going to do once the LBS experts properly dial you in to your saddle, applied chamois butter and the best pair of bibs that money can buy and you still have pain? Are you just going to give it up and take up knitting?

Put in some saddle time.