Originally Posted by
tractorlegs
Even apart from the bicycling issue, you are an adult now and need to make your own decisions. It's ok to listen to your family's concerns, which can be valid, but "man up" and make your decision based on what you want to do with your life.
+1 if you are older than 18, your parents really have no say.
It sounds to me like your situation might be an opportunity for learning and growth, but that is outside of the context of this forum
- Get the Sirrus
- get some decent quality rain gear
- Become familiar and comfortable on the bike again before launching into full-on commuting. Get your skills up to snuff
- Use maps.google.com to map your route, using the "by bicycle" option. You may find that you are not limited to dangerous roads.
Don't let your parents use guilt, shame, or narrow perspectives to influence your life.
Good luck!!!!!!