Originally Posted by
MetinUz
All jokes aside, if you feel perineum pressure now, it will only get worse as the saddle breaks in and your sit bones leave little indents on the leather. Either the saddle does not fit (too narrow?), or the tilt is not correct.
100% correct. And the OP should NOT start using all kinds of oils, grease etc. to soften the saddle.
A LEATHER SADDLE IS SUPPOSED TO BE HARD!!!! (Though not stone hard, but they never are, really)
The angle may be wrong, or it may be too narrow, or both. Those are the two possible reasons for problems with a new saddle of decent quality.