So here's an update.

Yesterday I called a local fitter, who does Dartfish.

He validated my positioning, with a few tweaks in the shoes, seatpost and saddle height.

BUT he also confirmed that I needed to reduce my handlebar reach by 3cm. I left with a 3T Ergonova. I didnt have that round egg feeling that I thought, so my apologies to the person(s) who recommended it to me.

BUT what was more bedazzling, was that I went from a handlebar width of 44cm down to a 40cm! I had a lot of trouble believing it. He reassured me that even with a 40, my arms were still slightly open.

So thanks again for all of your input.

EDIT: Just to clarify, I went to the fitter's this morning.