Might want to raise your bars a bit too at this point, you're not as used to supporting yourself after a few months off as you were back then. By raising them you bring yourself off your junk (regardless of gender), as well as help your wrists a bit. You can drop 'em a bit as you get more fit (do sit ups).
The other old rule of thumb (that's worked for my lady & I) is to raise the nose of the seat a bit if male, & lower it a tetch if female.
Also Remember a real mushy seat it not good for long rides generally. That's why brooks, & the thinner seats in general are still prevalent.
All that said, seat issues are pretty personal, no two butts are alike, so take it all with a grain of salt & carry appropriate tools to tweak it on a ride & make up your own mind.