Hey, thanks for the responses.
Don't care if I have extra, I was worried that I might be two short
Here's a pic I had for reference on how to reassemble the stem/headset.
Just wanted to note that I feel like I have dislodged the wedge, I unscrewed the bolt (partly) and then hit it, it became loose. But, there's no sign of the stem coming out (yet). Just wary that there could be plenty of rust down there holding it together, put a load of wd40 in to deal with that.