YOu dont want padding. The padding that is on your current saddle under your sitbones is probably the cause of your current problem.

As that padding compresses, your arse lowers, and your soft bits are now coming into contact with more and more pressure.

Best is to get a saddle that cups your sit bones and have those cups positioned to take most of the weight. That is where a Brooks works well, it will conform to most peoples sit bones, and cup them, just so

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