Where did the fun go?? It has never been fun!
From the earliest days of my youth there have been cars to contend with. It has only been fun in the deepest of winter, when the ride is only a fantasy, where cars are not a part of the dream.
Anyone wishing to find the fun again, needs to push away from the jelly donuts and the bike. Give it a good rest, but don't seduce yourself. It isn't fun, it has never been fun.