Originally Posted by
no1mad
And the wife is undoubtedly getting validation from whatever social network she's hooked into.
If doing a threat assessment and then taking steps to reduce those threats is trivializing and she is unable or unwilling to comprehend that said precautions were done in part to allay her fears... they've got bigger issues that is beyond the scope of my experience and knowledge.
The fact that she is getting validation from her friends only makes matters worse if she is not getting it from him.
If she does get that validation from him, she might be more able to appreciate the steps he's taking to alleviate her fears.